We've been there.
When despair sets in, when you feel like you'll never break free from this awful cycle of addiction, the future looks bleak. After living with Nic's pornography addiction in our home for 10 years of our marriage, we lost hope of ever being able to BREAK THE CYCLE. We would have given anything for someone to breathe hope and encouragement into us. But when you're lost and numb and broken, it's hard to know where to turn and who to trust.
HOPE Talks exists to provide hope to Christian couples broken by porn addiction by starting the conversation. By gaining courage and hope to simply reach out and talk about this pandemic affecting millions of homes every day, you are taking the first step toward REAL hope.
After having struggled with Nic’s pornography addiction in our home for 10 years of our marriage, we decided to break the silence.
We felt SO alone.
It felt like no one else was struggling with this addiction like we were. And for both of us, it felt hopeless - there seemed to be NO WAY OUT.
Because NO ONE talks about this. Sure, we heard the occasional encouraging and convicting sermon on the subject. But there was no couple we could turn to that could give BOTH of us advice. That could give BOTH of us hope. That could GIVE US A PROVEN PLAN to defeat this unwelcome guest in our home.
Nic needed specific help and accountability to overcome his addiction. At the same time, Jess needed a community of support and help to overcome the depression, anger, and codependent tendencies she’d adopted. These were very BIG and very different needs.
We are here to LINK ARMS with you. We are here to be your sounding board. We’ve been exactly where you are. When you feel nothing is EVER going to change. That there’s NO WAY OUT. That there’s just no hope for you or your marriage.
Have faith, friend. Take courage. The Lord provides a way out - we simply have to TAKE ACTION toward the way out. It will be hard. It will be painful. It will be WORTH IT.
Are you ready to break the cycle of pornography addiction in YOUR life? In YOUR home? In YOUR marriage?
We’re Nic and Jessica Gardner. Nic is well into his sobriety with NO TURNING BACK. We’ve been through the valley, and we’ve made it to the mountaintop. We want to help you get here, too!
It IS possible. You CAN do this.
Remember, fear silences. But HOPE talks!
WORKSHOPS FOR CHURCHES
We Come to YOU!
We present our proven plan for defeating pornography addiction to other Christian couples in person. Nic works with the men while Jess works with the women. Couples are equipped with action steps and courage to move forward. Question & Answer session included.
INDIVIDUAL COACHING FOR HUSBANDS
One-on-One Coaching Call with Nic
Want to talk with Nic about his personal struggle and what worked for him? Set up a completely private one-on-one call to get the direction YOU need. (Please book soon - slots are extremely limited.)
INDIVIDUAL COACHING FOR WIVES
One-on-One Coaching Call with Jess
Want to talk with Jess about her personal struggle and what worked for her? Set up a completely private one-on-one call to get the direction YOU need. (Please book soon - slots are extremely limited.)
"For God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power and love and self-control." - 2 Timothy 1:7
REACH OUT TODAY
You need help, but you're not sure where to start. Send us a message. We will do our very best to point you in the right direction. (And remember, your information is ALWAYS private. We do not share private information with anyone.)